Always something!

It seems there is always something that throws a wrench in my plans! I called the clinic today to find out what the next step is and the coordinator (who was quite rude, by the way) told me I had to call her on day 1 of my cycle to start birth control pills. When I told her that my cycle wasn't going to be starting until the end of the month and we were looking to do a fresh transfer end of April / beginning of May she says "well, you aren't going to be ready by then so you will have to do a frozen transfer". Uhh...you can't just decide what I am or am not doing without talking to M&M!! So I told her that this would be a problem, that we pushed really hard to get everything done by now so that we would be able to do this when the ED triggers. She says "I don't know what to tell you". So I told her that the Dr. I had seen twice in the last two weeks told me that we would have no problem with a fresh transfer in the timeframe we were giving...so why is it a problem now? So she gets extremely rude to me and tells me she is going to have to ask someone else there if they can skip the birth control pills for me and just start me on the meds with my next cycle. Uuuggh!! I really, really hope the other person there says that I can skip the pills!!! *fingers crossed*